I hate Itunes

I'm really pissed off with Itunes nowadays. I can't synchronize my videos or even photos to my itouch now. Whenever i open my itunes it has this January Software Upgrade thing that when I click the button "remind me later" or "no, thank you" redirects me to Itune's store. The page for synchronizing my itouch doesn't show off anymore. How can I sync my itouch then? Should i buy those software first before it quits showing this damn page? Arrrggghhhh!!!!!!! Why had I in the first place upgraded my version 1.1.2 to 1.1.3 then? I don't need it anyway. If only I can find the solution for this. I don't have time yet to browse the whole internet to find one. Or emailing them how to get rid off that page. Why can't they offer consumers purely satisfaction and not being annoyed of what they think is better. All is for money- and that counts!